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10 Things I've Learned in 4 Years of Pastoring (Part 2)

Discipleship, Waiting on God & Ministry

June 29, 202642:53
About this episode

In the conclusion of this two-part conversation, Dillon McCurdy and Pastor Drew Rogers discuss five more lessons from Pastor Drew's first four years of pastoral ministry. Topics include expositional preaching, the difference between being saved and being a disciple, learning to wait on God's timing, growing through humility and teachability, and why God's will is always the best place to be.

Key takeaways
  • Pastor Drew Rogers didn't know what expositional preaching was when he candidated at his church, and only moved toward it after reading Practical Wisdom for Pastors, picking First Samuel, and preaching a chapter a week — which he calls transformative because the message was no longer confined to his own understanding of a topic.
  • Both hosts acknowledge topical preaching and teaching have their place, but argue a church member's consistent diet shouldn't be only topical, and that even topical study should be done textually.
  • Drew's answer to the objection "how will you preach what the flock needs?" is that God knows better than the pastor does, and that verse-by-verse study has repeatedly landed on passages relevant to what the church was going through that week.
  • On discipleship, Drew describes the moment at his desk when he became a fully committed disciple, points to Luke 14:26-27, and says the Great Commission is "go make disciples" — which includes helping less mature believers mature, not only reaching new converts.
  • On waiting, Drew says Americans treat waiting as always negative, that waiting on God is a mark of maturity, and that waiting is neither inactivity nor constant busyness but standing in proximity to the King, listening, ready to move the moment he speaks.
  • On learning, Drew says his closed-mindedness was a poor testimony, and Dillon McCurdy adds that when we lose grip on the fundamentals we start adding secondary and tertiary issues to the list and separating over them.
  • On pastoring being life's greatest blessing, Drew qualifies it as tied to calling: whatever God has asked you to do right now is the greatest blessing, and stepping outside that will would make even pastoring a curse.
From the conversation
"A man who's nailed to a cross, he's not turning back. He's got nowhere else to go and he has no future plans of his own. And that's what it means to be a fully committed disciple of Jesus."Pastor Drew Rogers
"I had to learn how to just wait and realize that God can do in 10 minutes what I'll never be able to do in 10 years."Pastor Drew Rogers
"If you're one conversation away from having your faith moved, then your faith is not very foundational to begin with."Dillon McCurdy
Scripture referenced
  • Matthew 9:9 (paraphrased)
  • Luke 14:26-27
  • Luke 14:28-30 (paraphrased)
  • Matthew 28:19 (paraphrased)
  • Mark 16:15 (paraphrased)
  • Exodus 2:11-15 (paraphrased)
  • Numbers 12:3 (paraphrased)
  • Psalm 27:14 (paraphrased)
  • Exodus 14:13 (paraphrased)
  • Ephesians 6:13-14 (paraphrased)
  • Proverbs 18:13 (paraphrased)
  • Matthew 11:15 (paraphrased)
Mentioned in this episode
  • Practical Wisdom for Pastors — the book that moved Drew toward expositional preaching
  • Mark Dever, Nine Marks of a Healthy Church — its first mark is expositional preaching
  • Jerry Vines, A Practical Guide to Sermon Preparation
  • Adrian Rogers — source of the "man who is crucified" quote and "profound truth simply stated"
  • Henry Blackaby, Experiencing God — source of "don't just do something, stand there"
  • Bradley Baron, On Waiting — the book on waiting Drew calls transformational
  • Rupertus Meldenius — "In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity"
Discussion questions

Take it further

  1. Drew says expositional preaching kept the message from being confined to his understanding of a topic. Where has your own Bible study been limited to topics you already knew you wanted answers about?
  2. Drew challenges laymen to pick a book of the Bible they're afraid of and dive in. Which book would that be for you, and what's kept you out of it?
  3. Luke 14:26-27 was the passage that changed Drew's life. What would it look like for you to count the cost the way he describes?
  4. The hosts say making disciples includes helping less mature believers mature, not just reaching new converts. Who is helping you mature, and who are you helping?
  5. Drew describes waiting on God as standing near the King's throne, ready to move when he speaks — not idleness and not constant busyness. Which ditch do you tend to fall into?
  6. Dillon asks how weak a faith must be if one conversation would sway it. When have you avoided a conversation you probably should have had, and why?